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CONTENTMENT | 40 Days of Focus, Day 17

  “You shall not covet your neighbor’s house. You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, or his male or female servant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor.” (Exodus 20:17) I've always thought this command was somewhat out of place. All the other previous commands having to do with our treatment of others were very action-oriented. Murder, adultery, theft, lying - these are all things we can actively do to a person to cause harm. But who does it harm to covet? What does it even mean to covet? If you ask Google to define the word, here's what you get:  yearn to possess or have (something).  Some synonyms include "desire," "be consumed with desire for," "crave," "have one's heart set on." So this final of the 10 Commandments is more about an inward attitude than an outward action. In fact, this could be the one thing that leads to all the others. Look at what James says about this. What causes fights a

Biblical Enneagram Types: FOURS

Do you have that friend who's just a bit different ? They're the ones with the unique hair styles, kinda "out there" clothing choices, who listen to bands you've never heard of. They are outside-the-box thinkers. They don't like to be labeled or categorized. In fact, if they think "I'm not any of the Enneagram numbers. I'm my own number!"  then they're most likely a FOUR. Maybe this describes you or someone you know. Fours, often called the Individualist, are, in fact, different. According to some experts, there are probably fewer Fours than any other number. Fours fear being "normal" or just like everyone else, but they also deeply desire to belong and feel accepted. That's the tension of Fours. They want to be accepted as part of the group while maintaining their own individual identity. This all leads to the vice of Fours: envy. They see the life everyone else has - their perfect and pretty Instagram lives - and