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Dunning-Kruger: A Little Knowledge Is a Dangerous Thing

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Have you heard of cognitive biases?

Everyone has them. If you think you don't, then that's called the Blind-Spot Bias.

In some ways we couldn't function without them. Cognitive biases are kind of like shortcuts in the brain. We take in so much information throughout the day that we have to find a quick, somewhat efficient way to make sense of it all. Add to that the fact that we are highly social beings and we desire almost above everything else to be a part of an "in group." So we will overlook and ignore some things in order to keep our own personal beliefs and actions in line with the group to which we want to belong.

I would argue that most cognitive biases are not inherently bad, so long as we recognize them and can become more aware of when we are relying on them too heavily. But if we are aren't self-aware, if we just kind of live on autopilot and let our cognitive biases take too much control, then what starts out as a shortcut can quickly turn into …

4 Life Changing TED Talks

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My reaction to most TED Talks is, Huh...that was interesting. And then I go about my day.

But every so often there is a Talk that sticks with me. It get lodged inside my brain. It goes on repeat, and I can't help but think about it. I come back to it time and time again in conversation or my own thoughts and research.

These four in particular are on that playlist. These are the videos I wish EVERY person would watch, because they will challenge you to grow. They will make you uncomfortable. They will question the status quo. They will help you see yourself, others, and the world in a new way.

These Talks emphasize Vulnerability, Humility, Empathy, and Creativity. Chances are you've probably seen one or two of these before. If you have, watch them again. I'm sure you'll find something new. If not, prepare to have your world turned on its head.
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Brené Brown | THE POWER OF VULNERABILITY


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Kathryn Shultz | ON BEING WRONG


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3 Benefits of the Enneagram

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If you've been paying attention to Christian books, podcasts, Twitter, and YouTube, then I'm sure you've at least heard of something called the Enneagram. You may be familiar with it, or you may have no idea what that term means. I'm no expert, and I'll direct you to some helpful resources in a coming post. But for now, I want to mention just three key ways my life has improved because of this tool called the Enneagram (inn-ē-uh-gram).

1) The Enneagram has introduced me to myself.

At its most basic, the Enneagram is a personality typing system. You may have taken some kind of personality assessment before, like the Meyers-Briggs (I'm an ENFJ, whatever that means). The Enneagram spells out nine different personality types represented by a number along a circular figure. Each number represents a different way of viewing and interacting with the world.

You may wonder what's the big deal. But it's more than just picking a number or taking a test online. As y…